Showing posts with label Mistress Malcontent. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mistress Malcontent. Show all posts

Thursday, 7 February 2013

Why Don't They Just Leave?

By: Mistress Malcontent
Content Warning: Discussions of domestic abuse and violence and victim blaming
Originally posted on Slut-Shaming Tumblr



When the issue of domestic violence comes up - the first thing a lot of people ask is “Why don’t they just leave?”

From an outside perspective, it can be confusing and heart-breaking that people stay with abusers. This confusion causes a lot of people to blame those who stay.

Sunday, 6 May 2012

Insults and Oppression

By: Liberate Zealot, Insidious Beast, Mirthful Misanthrope, and Mistress Malcontent

Content Warning: Sexism and slut-shaming, Ableism, Homophobia, Religious supremacy, transphobia, racism, fat shaming, ageism, gaslighting, every type of oppressive language we could think of 

So you're a progressive/feminist/queer/social justice activist and you're arguing with mean and insulting people and you want to insult them back without engaging in oppressive language. Because being good doesn't mean you always have to be nice.  Here's a post of non-oppressive insults.  But, we're doing a post on what insults are oppressive, and what type of oppression they fall under.  Because, it's a sad fact that our language and culture is so Kyriarchal that many of us don't even realize the oppressive roots of the words that are in common usage.

 Also some of these words have been reclaimed by the people they oppressive.  Please be aware of the difference between people within an oppressed group using words that are traditionally used to oppress them and an outside group using such language.  Religious supremacy is very tied to racism, just as body insults/policing and ableism are related, so those sections will be grouped together as some words fall under both both categories.  I'm separating classist and racist terms, but there is also a great deal on intersection between those as well (such as ratchet and ginger).  Also ageist is often linked with sexist slurs, same with sexist and classist slurs. Basically a lot of slurs are intersectional.

None of these slurs are positioned based on priority or seriousness of the slur.  All words are alphabetized, with non-English words at the bottom of the list.

Naturally we're going to miss some, if you have any to include please mention them in the comments!  We're trying to include ones from a variety of languages and countries, but because of our locations we're, unfortunately, English-centric.

Monday, 5 March 2012

Conversations Among the Hive Mind: Bill O'Reilly Edition


    • Oooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Supporting American women = dooming all Americans to loss of freedom

    Liberate Zealot: 
    • totes­ ­
    • because women aren't real Americans­ ­... not of the AMURIKA! variety  ­

      Malanka Sveta:
      • But Viagra is medically neccesary

        Liberate Zealot: 
        • well sure, 
          because dicks are supposed to get hard all the time,  around every attractive woman.
        • failure to do so is obvi a serious medical issue

          Malanka Sveta:

          • That's his actual argument...I couldn't make this up.

            Liberate Zealot: 

            • what does it say when my sarcastic response meant to highlight the inanity/sexism of people is their legit reasoning?

              Mistress Malcontent:

              Haiii all I have a gif for ye all!